LARRY ROSEN
69TH BAR MITZVA ANNIVERSARY SPEECH -- FINAL AMENDED COPY
DELIVERED SATURDAY, AUGUST 20TH 2005 SHABBAS NACHAMU
OHEV SHOLOM SYNAGOGUE
16TH AND JONQUIL STREET NW
WASHINGTON, DC
ON THIS SHABBAS NACHAMU, WHICH MARKS
MY 69TH BAR MITZVA ANNIVERSARY, I WOULD LIKE TO SHARE A FEW MEMORIES OF MY
BIG DAY, ALONG WITH SOME RECOLLECTIONS EXPERIENCED WHILE ATTENDING SERVICES
AT CONGREGATION TALMUD TORAH, 467 E ST. SW, WASHINGTON D.C, DURING MY YOUNGER
DAYS.
TO PREPARE ME FOR MY BAR MITZVA, I
HAD A GOOD TEACHER — MY FATHER, MOSHE AHARON ROSEN. IN ADDITION TO BEING
A SHOCHET AND MOHEL, MY FATHER ESTABLISHED A CHEDER IN ONE ROOM OF OUR HOME,
TEACHING FORTHCOMING BAR MITZVA BOYS HOW TO READ HEBREW AND PREPARING THEM
FOR THEIR BAR MITZVA HAFTORAH.WE LIVED AT 713 4TH ST SW., WHICH
WAS THE FORMER RESIDENCE OF RABBI YOELSON, FATHER OF THE FAMOUS MOVIE ACTOR,
AL JOLSON.
HARRY GOLDBERG, A LONG-TIME MEMBER OF OST IS A GRADUATE OF MY FATHER’S CHEDER,
WHERE THE TUITION FEE WAS $1.00 A WEEK. .
EMPIRE CHICKEN AND TURKEY PRODUCTS
WERE NOT YET OFFERED FOR SALE ON MARKET SHELVES. HOUSEWIVES HAD TO
PURCHASE LIVE CHICKENS AND TAKE THEM TO THE SCHOCHET OF THEIR CHOICE—OR HAVE
THE SHOCHET SLAUGHTER AND DELIVER CHICKENS TO THEIR HOME (NO DELIVERY CHARGE).
I REMEMBER DELIVERING CHICKENS TO
RABBI JOSHUA KLAVAN’S RESIDENCE ON F ST SW. SHECTEN AND FLIKEN A CHICKEN
—TO SLAUGHTER AND PLUCK THE FEATHERS — THE CHARGE WAS 15 CENTS. GOING RATE
FOR A BRIS WAS $10,00, AND CHARGE FOR POSSIBLE FUTURE POTOMAC RESIDENTS,
$25.00.
MY DAD WAS A VERY ACTIVE MEMBER OF
TALMUD TORAH—RECORDING SECRETARY FROM 1933 TO 1944,WHEN HE PASSED AWAY. HE
READ THE TORAH EVERY SATURDAY, BLEW THE SHOFER ON THE HIGH HOLIDAYS AND DAVENED
MINCHA EVERY YOM KIPPUR.
THOSE OF YOU WHO HAVEN’T VISITED OUR
MEMORABILIA ROOM CAN VIEW MY DAD’S RECORDED SECRETARIAL BOOK (IN YIDDISH)
IN THAT ROOM.
SOME TIME AGO, MRS. CHANA BENJAMIN,
DAUGHTER OF LONG TIME MEMBERS, BARBARA AND LEONARD GOODMAN. WHO IS WELL VERSED
IN YIDDISH, TRANSLATED THE YIDDISH-RECORDED MINUTES OF TWO MEETINGS INTO
ENGLISH. .
I’LL JUST READ A FEW SELECTED SENTENCES FROM
THE TRANSLATED MINUTES.OF JANUARY 22, 1939 (TAKE NOTE, MEMBERS ARE REFERRED
TO AS “BROTHERS”):
BROTHER BELIN OF THE E BIKUR CHOLIM (SICK COMMITTEE). COMMITTEE
REPORTED THAT BROTHER JAY GRUTZ WASN’T WELL. BROTHER HOROWITZ WAS INSTRUCTED
TO SEND POSTCARDS TO ALL OF THE BROTHERS, TELLING THEM TO VISIT BROTHER JAY
GRUTZ. (APPARENTLY BROTHER HOROWITZ MAY NOT HAVE HAD A TELEPHONE)
IT WAS PROPOSED THAT WE GIVE $5 TO THE SLONIM YESHIVA,
$2 FROM THE SHUL AND $ 3 FROM THE “RELIGIOUS FUND”
DECEMBER 28, 1941.
“IT WAS REPORTED THAT, UNFORTUNATELY, WE LOST FOUR MEMBERS IN NEARLY A WEEK:
BROTHRS KESSLER,TOLSTOY,YEGER AND SISTER WOLF. THE PRESIDENT ASKED
FOR AN EXPRESSION OF SADNESS, CALLING FOR THREE MINUTES OF SILENCE
(NOT TODAY’S ONE MINUTE).TO HONOR THEIR MEMORIES.
A MOTION BY BROTHER GOLUBETSKY, SECONDED BY BROTHER BELLIN, THAT THE SHUL
SHOULD BUY THREE BONDS FOR $75 EACH WAS MADE, COUNTED, PASSED AND REGISTERED”.
SIGNED A ROSEN, SECRETARY.
I HAVE THE COMPLETE MINUTES OF THESE 2 MEETINGS
IF ANYONE WOULD LIKE TO SEE THEM.
I FORGOT THE SUBJECT OF MY BAR MITZVAH DVAR TORAH,
BUT DEFINITELY RECALL THAT I DID NOT HAVE TO DODGE ANY CANDY SNACKS, USUALLY
FIRED AT TODAY’S BAR MITZVA BOYS. IN THE 30’S, CANDY, IF AVAILABLE, WAS ONLY
EATEN, NEVER THROWN. THE FOLLOWING CUSTOM WAS FOLLOWED BY ALL BAR MITZVAS
AT TALMUD TORAH.IMEADIATELY FOLLOWING COMPLETION OF THE HAFTORAH: THE “NEW
MAN” WOULD WALK BACK TO THE REAR OF THE SYNAGOGUE, THROUGH THE
LOBBY, PROCEED UP THE STAIRS TO THE WOMEN’S SECTION, LOCATED IN THE SHUL
BALCONY, LOCATE AND KISS HIS MOTHER, AND THEN REJOIN THE MEN’S SECTION.
ALL THE BAR MITZVAS WORE THE PLAIN
SQUARE YARMALKE, NOW OUT OF STYLE, RATHER THANB THE PRESENT IMPRINTED KIPPA.
I’M STILL RESEARCHING WHO CHANGED THE STYLE , WHEN.AND WHY..
THE STANDARD BAR MITZVA
KIDDISH MENU FEATURED HERRING AND ONIONS, KICHEL, WINE, LIQUOR AND
USUALLY TOMATO SARDINES. FOR THE SHALA SHUDAS MEAL BETWEEN MINCHA AND
MAARIV.
DURING MY YOUTH I CAN’T RECALL ATTENDING ANY GALA BAR MITZVA CELEBRATIONS,
LIKE TODAY’S EVENTS, FEATURING A GOURMET MEAL FANCY DESERTS WITH DANCING,
CALNDLELLIGHT SERVICES, GAMES, BALLOON TABLE SETTINGS ETC.
THE OFFICIATING RABBI FOR MY BAR MITZVA AT
TALMUD TORAH WAS RABBI JOSHUA KLAVAN, FATHER OF OHEV SHOLOM’S RABBI EMERITUS,
RABBI HILLEL KLAVAN. RABBI JOSHUA KLAVAN’S SERMONS WERE DELIVERED IN YIDDISH
AND WHEN HE WALKED PAST A SEATED CONGREGANT, THAT CONGREGANT WOULD SHOW
RESPECT BY RISING UP FROM HIS BENCH.
RABBI KLAVAN CAME TO WASHINGTON FROM VERMONT TO VISIT HIS SON HARRY WHO WAS
ATTENDING LAW SCHOOL. HE GOT ILL AND COULD NOT RETURN HOME. WHILE ATTENDING
SERVICES AT TALMUD TORAH,,HE LEARNED WITH THE CONGREGATION AND THEN WAS ASKED
TO BE THEIR RABBI, BECAUSE THE PREVIOUS RABBI HORWITZ HAD PASSED AWAY. .(RABBI
HORWITZ’S SON, ALEC,WAS RECOGNIZED AS A TOP SURGEON IN THE DC AREA) .
THERE WERE TWO ITEMS ALWAYS ON THE
TALMUD TORAH BEMAH, TABLE THAT HAVE VANISHED. FIRST WAS A CONTAINER
OF SNUFF (PULVERIZED TOBACCO INHALED THROUGH THE NOSTRILS.) IN YIDDISH SNUFF
WAS CALLED A” SMEK TABAK.” PERHAPS SNUFF WAS POPULAR BECAUSE OBVIOUSLY NO
ONE COULD LIGHT A CIGARET ON THE SABBATH..THE SECOND BEMAH ITEM NO LONGER
PRESENT WAS A LEATHERY TYPE PADDLE RESTING ON A LEATHERY BASE.ON THE FIRST
DAY OF EACH NEW MONTH AND ON SPECIAL FESTIVALS. THE SHAMAS (SEXTON) WOULD
VIGOROUSLY STRIKE THE BASE WITH THE PADDLE ,ANNOUNCNG A SPECIAL PRAYE,R “YALEH
VI YOVAH” !! OR CERTAIN ADDITIONS ,LIKE “ MASHEV HARUACH” BEGINNING
FROM THE HOLIDAY OF SMINEH AJARIS UNTIL THE FIRST DAY OF PASSOVER.
DURING THE WINTER MONTHS, I CAN REMEMBER THE HISSING OF THE SHUL RADIATIORS
AND IN THE SUMMER I RECALL THAT THERE WAS NO AIR CONDITIONING.
TO REACH THE TALMUD TORAH REST ROOMS, .ONE HAD TO EXIT THE MAIN SANCTUARY
THROUGH A SIDE DOOR AND PROCEED INTO AN OUTSIDE NARROW COURT YARD THAT
LED TO THE ENCLOSED BATHROOMS.(NOT OUT HOUSES) BUT INSTALLED IN THAT LOCATION
FOR SOME REASON ..
FOR THOSE OF YOU NOT FAMILIAR WITH HOW TALMUD
TORAH BECAME OHEV SHOLOM, THE ENTIRE SOUTHWEST AREA UNDERWENT REDEVELOPMENT
IN THE 50’S,DURING WHICH TIME TALMUD TORAH WAS DEMOLISHED. AFTER MOVING
TO 14TH AND EMERSON ST NW, TALMUD TORAH MERGED WITH OHEV SHOLOM, AT
THAT TIME LOCATED AT 5TH AND EYE NW. LATER THE COMBINED SYNAGOGUE RELOCATED
TO OUR PRESENT LOCATION--16TH AND JONQUIL ST NW ,OFFICIALLY DEDICATED IN
1960.
I CHECKED WITH SOME HISTORIANS AND
AN OLD OHEV SHOLOM MEMBER PAUL SPERLING, TO FIND OUT IF THERE HAD EVER BEEN
ANY OBJECTIONS VOICED TO THE DESTRUCTIONOF THE SYNAGOGUE BY ANY GROUPS. NEITHER
PAUL OR THE JEWISH HISTORIANS WERE FAMILIAR WITH ANY HISTORY OF OBJECTIONS
TO THE DEMOLITION OF TALMUD TORAH. AND PAUL FELT THAT MANY SW RESIDENTS
HAD MOVED AWAY. AND ACCORDING TO ONE LONG TIME HISTORIAN, “WHAT WE CONSIDER
THE HISTORIC PRESERVATION MOVEMENT REALLY DIDN’T EXIST IN THE EARLY 50’S
AND GOT GOING IN THE 60’S, IN PART, BECAUSE OF WHAT HAPPENED TO PLACES LIKE
SOUTHWEST. ST. DOMINIC CHURCH, NEAR TALMUD TORAH AT 7TH AND E ST SW, WAS
PRESERVED BECAUSE IT DREW FROM A MUCH LARGER AREA THAN SW. ONE
FORMER TALMUD TORAH MEMBER, IN A BOOK, ‘THE JEWS OF WASHINGTON,D.C,”.EDITED
BY DAVID ALTSHULER, IS QUOTED AS SAYING ‘THE SW JEWS HAD A CLOSE RELATIONSHIP
WITH THE SHUL. IT WAS THE HUB OF ACTIVITES,THEIR CENTER AND THEIR COUNTRY
CLUB. HERE IS A PHOTO OF OSTT BEFORE AND AFTER ITS DESTRUCTION, THAT
CAN ALSO BE SEEN IN THE MEMORABILIA ROOM. HERE IS A RECENT PHOTO I TOOK OF
THE APPROXIMATE SPOT WHERE TALMUD TORAH WAS ONCE LOCATED, AT 467 E STREET
SW.
LAST AUGUST WHEN I CHANTED MY BAR MITZ VA
HAFTORAH, THE ATTENDANCE WAS MUCH SMALLER THAN TODAY. THE KIDDISH
WAS HELD IN THE SISTERHOOD ROOM,.AND VERY SELDOM, DID WE EVER DESCEND THE
STAIRS FOR A KIDDISH IN OUR PRESENT RECEPTION HALL.
BUT THANKS TO THE EXCELLENT EFFORTS, PROMOTIONAL IDEAS AND INTERESTING
UNIQUE PROGRAMS, INSPIRED AND DIRECTED BY OUR NEW SPIRTUAL LEADER, RABBI
SHMUEL HERZFELD, OHEM SHOLOM IS ALIVE AND WELL. MANY NEW FAMILIES HAVE JOINED
OUR SHUL,AND OUR SYNAGOGUE IS STILL GROWING (WITH A NEW ROOF AND AN
ASSISTANT RABBI ON THE WAY).
THANKS TO EVERYONE WHO HAS JOINED ME IN CELEBRATING MY BAR MITZVA ANNIVERSARY.
A SPECIAL WELCOME TO MY GRANDSON DANIEL,WHO FLEW IN FROM PORTLAND OREGON
TO BE PRESENT AT HIS ZADE’S BAR MITZVA ANNIVERSARY, MY SON STEVE, AND ALL
FORMER SW RESIDENTS.,AND LONG TIME FRIENDS. WITH GOD’S HELP, LET’S
GET TOGETHER NEXT YEAR, SAME PLACE ON SHABBAS NACHAMU!